Can You Learn From your Friends?

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As kids we develop friendships which we vowed no matter what, we’ll be friends to the end. We were sincere in the very idea and thought of that bunch.

However, life starts to happen, and other things start to happen at the exact same time. When you’re kids all is wonderful, colorful, and free. We see the bluest skies and the greenest trees. Our friend is right regardless of what they say or do, and we just admire how they could tell a lie and make it seem so true. Innocence has been lost and nearly forgotten. The colors have been meshed into an unrecognizable color that we can’t easily name; so we find ourselves spontaneously making up a name that seems to fit.

No one wants to state that this isn’t right, or this is wrong, or even question anymore “WHY”? Nooooooooo, we just mindlessly and “purposely” get-in-to-fit-in and in some arenas this seemingly is the only way to acquire the desired end goal of us all. But this compromise puts us at of danger of becoming just another face, another number, another… just the same old “here’s another one’.

Do not get-in-to-fit-in, dare to be different, even if “different” to the current standards is not popular. I can be me, you can be you, we could be us, and they, can be them and everyone is able to accept “Titusville Bat Removal“, but not necessarily “what” we all can perform. That is an individual choice, and personal certainty of whatever “that” is that we, they may do. If you do not like “what I do”, simply ‘don’t participate’, if I do not like what you do… I just ‘don’t participate’.

My conclusion is mine alone, and I am very confident about my conclusion. Your end is your end, and I hope you’re as certain of your own end. I have also undergone “a glimpse of and been affected by unrest, unfaithfulness, unloved, unforgiveness, pain, sorrow, confusion, despair, illness, hopelessness, and boy have I seen my share of death; however, the guarantee of “eternal bliss” has overshadowed my heart, soul, soul, and mind, til my only outlook is “inner peace”, and “unfiltered joy”.

Some of my childhood friends are no longer hear on this ground, some of them have gone on beyond this world. None of them have come back to tell me where they are, however, for some I already know, because they made it quite clear while they were yet alive; where their lifespan could be. This I am confident of and this you can ponder… #if you my friends went to paradise, they don’t need to leave; and when their lifetime is in hell… #they can’t leave.

I leave you with this… If your friend(s) say to you that they’ve found inner peace, unspeakable joy, and life is great, although they may be financially struggling; and you on the other hand have $$$, but you are miserable, no inner peace, and you end up envying your friend(s)… DON’T! Ask them… how is it you can be broke, alone, and at peace… they may just tell you… “I have unspeakable joy”; I can not describe but it’s something that has helped me, and me it has surely sustained.

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